Power Couple
Meet this month’s cover stars Lily Aspen / @lily.aspen & Spencer Neveu / @spencerneveu
Photographer Diana Fakhrieva / @tagirovna_vid
Stylist Lily Aspen / @lily.aspen
MUA Kate Starkey / @starkey_makeup
PR Firebird PR Agency / @firebirdpragency
Lily, you are a popular influencer, the author of a personal growth project, Spencer, you are the author of a book when you met together you create an even stronger creative tandem. Tell us how you inspire each other for new projects? Lily: Before I met Spencer, I was in an exploration phase after coming out of a serious relationship that didn’t work out. Meeting Spencer felt like a dream come true. I’ve never felt such a deep attraction, both physically and mentally, and such comfort emotionally. It inspired me to share my journey with my audience because I used to be a cynic who had given up on romance, convinced I’d end up alone with 40 cats.
Spencer: I met Lily during a transition phase in my professional career, where I was doing a lot of introspection in order to hone in on exactly what I felt was the right move for me. Lily and I bring different backgrounds and skill sets to the table and we compliment each other so beautifully by being able to communicate clearly. I could have never dreamed that my partner would offer so much strength and support for my professional life and be able to inspire me in such a profound way.
Tell us how you met. Lily: We actually met on Hinge! I was the one who reached out to Spencer first and said, ‘We would look great in pictures together.’ And, funny enough, that turned out to be pretty true fast forward, and now we’re on a Playboy cover together.
Spencer: We had both been single living in Los Angeles long enough to have our own good and bad experiences, which in combination with a good push from friends and family led us to try dating apps. Thankfully the timing was right and we found each other on Hinge. The conversation was smooth and there was obvious mutual attraction, the rest is history.
Playboy magazine very rarely makes covers, placing a couple, in its entire history there have been only a few, you really deserve special attention and make your relationship unique. How did you take the offer to star in a spicy photo shoot for Playboy Denmark? Spencer: We were incredibly honored to receive the opportunity to be one of the few couples featured on a Playboy cover, especially knowing how rare it is. It’s such a special recognition of our relationship and something we will cherish together for the rest of our lives.
Lily: I think it felt a bit easier for us since we both have modeling experience, which helped us feel more comfortable in front of the camera. But more than that, it was an amazing way to celebrate our connection in such an iconic and artistic way.
What is your ideal way to spend time together? Lily: Our ideal way to spend time together is a mix of everything we love. We enjoy hanging out with friends, going on romantic getaways, and exploring new restaurants. We also love making little surprises for each other to keep things fun and spontaneous.
Spencer: And of course, we’re just as happy with a cozy night in, Netflix and chill, or playing video games together. Lily is so supportive and genuinely interested in the things I love, whether it’s nerding out or watching sports, it’s all about enjoying each other’s company and making the most of our time together.
Lily, let’s talk about your current project, what is its theme and who is it aimed at? Lily: My current project focuses on helping women improve their dating and sex lives by working on their self-esteem and confidence from the inside out. It’s based on a combination of cognitive behavioral therapy and energy work, allowing individuals to shift their mindset and heal emotional blockages. The aim is to create healthier, more fulfilling relationships by first building a solid foundation of self-love and personal empowerment.
Soon you will start an English-language project with the theme of “Sex education”. What knowledge in this area do you think modern girls lack? Lily: Over the past five years, I’ve been exploring the dating scene myself, so I have a lot of firsthand experience and insights to create a relatable product. Many women focus on external factors, but the real work starts within — building self-worth and confidence. Through a blend of cognitive behavioral therapy and energy work, I’ll show them how to heal emotional blockages and shift their mindset, leading to healthier relationships and more fulfilling sexual experiences. It’s all about empowering them to transform their love lives by first transforming their relationship with themselves.
In addition to intimate relationships, you teach girls around the world to value themselves and their space. Tell us about it. Lily: In addition to intimate relationships, I also teach women around the world to truly value themselves and their personal space. My own journey of self-transformation has been a big part of that. I went from weighing 340 lbs (149 kg) to 135 lbs (60 kg) and went through four plastic surgeries to achieve the body I have today. This experience transformed me not only physically but also mentally. I’ve lived on both sides as a chubby, shy girl and now someone who experiences beauty privilege. That dual perspective allows me to connect with women in a way that’s both inspiring and relatable. I understand the struggle for self-worth, and I help women reclaim their confidence and value in every aspect of their lives.
Lily, you are also in the process of writing your book. What will it be about? Lily: Yes, I’m currently writing a book titled *’69 Dicks Later,’* which is all about my personal dating experiences and the journey to finding true love. It explores how I learned more about myself through different relationships, including dating narcissists, enduring abuse, struggling with being overweight, and all the drama that shaped who I am today. The book highlights the growth I went through and how that led me to meet my perfect partner. It’s a raw, honest look at the ups and downs of love, self-discovery, and ultimately, finding happiness.
Spencer, you are also currently writing a book for a male audience, “How to level up your love life for gamer guys.” Tell us about it. Spencer: As a lifelong gamer who was more than a bit shy and introverted as a kid, my goal is to provide quality advice and information to all my fellow gamers out there that could use a little help in their love life. Similar to the gamer guide magazines that I read as a kid to get past levels I was stuck on, I want to be there for anyone trying to level up and improve their experience no matter what has them down. My approach utilizes a mixture of self-reflection and pragmatism to nurture and guide individuals towards healthy and lasting relationships.
Spencer, why do you think this topic is so popular, and why do men need to think about the quality of their relationships? Spencer: In our hyper-connected era, smartphones and social media have woven an intricate digital tapestry, yet paradoxically, many find themselves adrift in this vast virtual expanse. We’re inundated with an endless stream of data, much of it noise rather than signal. This information deluge makes it crucial to curate and amplify meaningful content, particularly when it comes to relationships. There’s a pressing need for accessible, nuanced guidance especially for young men charting unfamiliar emotional waters. In a landscape where authenticity often takes a backseat to curated personas, providing a compass for genuine connection has never been more vital.
Are you planning a joint project? Maybe live performances for couples? Lily: we would love to start with a series of podcasts and see how it goes.
Spencer: We’re always dreaming big together so there a more than a few ideas, but without a doubt the constant theme is helping others and doing good. We would love nothing more than for our love to overflow in a way that can be supportive of others.
And the most important question, when is the wedding? Spencer: Dating in your mid 30’s can be tricky so it’s certainly something we’ve discussed, but we’re trying to enjoy each other to the fullest one day at a time. I’ve always heard when you know you know, and I can absolutely attest to that now that I’ve met Lily, but we’ve got a lot of experiences planned before we get to the big day.
Lily: We’re not in a rush, but we definitely plan to have two ceremonies. One will be in the Colorado mountains, where Spencer is from, and the other will be at Giraffe Manor Hotel in Kenya, which is my favorite place on the planet. I’ve been a giraffe mama for the past four years, doing charity work for Rothschild giraffe conservation there.
